Amidst the hubbub of everyday life I often find myself
wondering how I could use my time more wisely. It seems I would do much better
if my days had 40 hours and everyone else’s only had 24. I could sleep as much
as I wanted, then be uber productive and still have time to watch Netflix
incessantly and look up sundry topics on Wikipedia for hours. Alas, my days
will likely remain on the 24-hour clock system until scientists, astronomers,
navigators and horologists discover a glitch in the universe.
There exist a million ways to save time and have a more efficacious
life. This in no way is an exhaustive list of things to do. Truth be told,
different things work for different people, and some things are just plain
obvious. For example: Don’t watch entire series of shows in less than a week.
Do not sleep over 12 hours at a time. Do not disregard all of your responsibilities
with the wonderful hope that they will somehow cosmically disappear. And do not
habitually make grandiose goals without devising some means to achieve them.
Some advice is implicit, and some is simply replete with tired
platitudes, and maybe this will be no different, but here are a few things that
have helped me be more efficient and productive in my most quotidian tasks and
endeavors.
1.
Talk On The Phone in The Car
Okay, at first this sounds like reckless
advice. Let me continue. Most of us are prone to texting or using our phones
while we drive anyway, so let us use the lesser of two iniquities. Also, with
speaker phone, head phones and blue tooth telephoning is a much safer option
than texting. I always find that there are people I want to converse with on
the phone, but my claim is always that I am too busy. So, I send them a courtesy
text or more likely, I forget about them. They fall victim to technology.
Because it is so easy to send a text, calls are neglected. Hearing the voice of
a loved one becomes something unimportant. My solution is to take the time you
have in your vehicle and utilize it. Do not just blast music in an attempt to
drown out the noise of your tedious life. Call someone you care about, someone
you have been meaning to get back in touch with. When we are at home, we can
and will find a million reasons to not do it. In the car however, no one will
knock on your door (except the occasional derelict at a red light), and no one
will be eavesdropping in the next room. Most of us dread driving more than 15
minutes somewhere, especially by ourselves. Well, take the opportunity to quit
raging about people’s poor driving etiquette and call an old chum you have lost
touch with. Call a cousin and congratulate them on their nuptials. Call an old
coach or teacher and say thanks. Granted you can call people anywhere and
anytime you want. But if your excuse is that you are too busy, or you
constantly complain about your commute somewhere and the accompanying traffic,
pick up your phone and quit grumbling.
2.
Make To-Do Lists
There are so many things I want to do in a
typical day, and sometimes all I end up doing is eating at Wendy’s, reading a
chapter of a book and hanging out for 8 hours. When I make to-do lists however,
my production seems to increase at an alarming rate. I believe that to-do lists
should contain two important elements. First you should not include things that
you do every day without fail. Putting ‘Take a shower’ on your list will only
be a waste of ink or graphite and will not make you feel more accomplished once
it is crossed off. My second rule of thumb is to not be discouraged if you do
not finish every task. Some tasks will be more important than others, and there
are myriad variables that will undoubtedly arise throughout our day limiting
our ability to accomplish everything all the time. My anecdote for this problem
is to carry over the unchecked boxes of a particular day to the next day. My
goal is simply that I get things done. It is nice to have every miniature box
aggressively scribbled in, but it is not paramount.
3.
Take Time to Read
I find that when I am frequently reading I
am frequently inspired. People claim they do not have time to read between
their studies, their work and their incalculably important social lives. But I
beg to differ. You do not have to read 2 hours a day. Read when you are making bowel movements. Read while you are waiting for your friend to
take ‘a quick shower’ that we all know will last at least 20 minutes. Read for
a few minutes when you wake up to clear your foggy brain of its dusty cobwebs.
Read at night to help you slip into slumber. There is time for literature and
though many view it as a waste of time, it will undoubtedly make you smarter,
more cultured, more understanding, more inspired, and more motivated. Just
reading quotes on Pinterest or reading articles online does not suffice. Open a
book. They fit compactly in most purses and every backpack I have ever seen. If
nothing else, make a goal to read 30 minutes a day from a book of your choice.
See if your speech is not more eloquent, if your motivation is not higher and
if your production of ideas is not increased.
4.
Write in a Journal
I can hear the excuses already. You hate
writing, it hurts your hand and you have nothing interesting to write concerning your boring lives. Balderdash. We all have interesting lives, they just often
seem unimportant because they are ours and we have had them our whole lives.
Your life is beautiful, unique and prodigious in more ways than you understand.
That is why you should write about it. If nothing else writing about your day
will help you realize the good. As the pen hits the paper you will see salient
points of positivity. You will see that life is not so bad, or so hard. For me
it is a cathartic process. I sit down at the end of the day and let the pen describe
in sloppy prose what transpired in my life since the last time I wrote. In
doing this I subconsciously become accountable to my journal in my daily
actions. I do not want to do something untoward or embarrassing, because
regardless of the level of stupidity it will be documented. Just like reading,
writing inspires and motivates. It may be viewed as another activity that is a
waste of time, but I find that when I am writing I am inspired and imbued with
energy. And being encouraged and filled with inspiration is never a waste of
time.
5.
Don’t Waste Time With The Wrong
People
What we fail to realize sometimes is that if
we are not progressing in life we are regressing. Bad habits insidiously become
ways of life and before we realize it we are often going in reverse. How do we avoid this course of regression?
Eliminate things that are retarding our progression. It has been said that we
kind of become the sum total of the 5 people we spend the most time with. So
what if one of those people is a vessel for constant negativity? What if one of
those five makes you feel terribly about yourself? Eventually it will wear on
you, and likely stop you from moving forward. Yet we seem to stick around. We
humans are obstinate and obtuse creatures. We hang around people that are not
edifying us, and we remain in unhealthy relationships hoping they will improve.
Then we bellyache because our lives are stagnant. If we want to progress, we
must release ourselves from anything or anyone that is holding us back from our
potential. For surely the potential of each one of us is high. Some people we hob nob with remind us of that
fact, others obscure that notion making us feel woefully mediocre and
undeserving of good things. So let us have the courage to estrange ourselves
from the wrong people, in search of the right people.
"People are strange. They are constantly angered by trivial things, but on a major matter like totally wasting their lives, they hardly seem to notice."
~Charles Bukowski
Great pieces of advice, Taylor. I've been thinking a lot about this lately. I wish I could be sleep induced (see Inception) and have my days be exponentially augmented so I could do all my readings, writings, chatting, etc... As that is most probably not happening any time soon, I'll give the "to dos" list a try (again).
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Thanks Berenice. Ya, I have my bouts with to-do lists. But I do not know why, because they always help me dominate life.
ReplyDeleteMandi for President. Go shower. Love ya kid.
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